Never Live Like a Resident

Never Live Like a Resident: Why Consumption Smoothing Is the Better Way for Physicians

A popular mantra on physician personal finance blogs is “Live like a resident.” The idea is simple and mathematically sound: if you can live on a resident-level salary of around $60,000 for several years, even when your income skyrockets to $300,000 or more, you can maximize your savings, invest aggressively, and ultimately secure your financial independence much sooner. James Dahle of White Coat Investor is an advocate of this approach. While the arithmetic behind “living like a resident” is undeniably compelling, this strategy has a major downside.

I can’t recommend something that I have never done. I never “lived like a resident” – even as a resident! I’m not suggesting you just stop living like a resident when you become an attending. You could choose to always live better than a resident and be fine.

You can reach robust financial outcomes without years of draconian frugality. Instead of pinching every penny, why not adopt a strategy of consumption smoothing? This approach allows you to live slightly above your means in the early years, then taper your spending as your income and lifestyle grow. You maintain a sense of upward mobility and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

This approach still allows you to reach your financial goals. It worked for me and will work for others.

“Living like a resident” might not be optimal for long-term happiness. You can achieve financial independence—even become a pentamillionaire before retirement—without sacrificing quality of life.

The Case Against “Living Like a Resident”

Psychological Downsides of Prolonged Frugality

Maintaining that level of frugality after you’ve completed your residency can be counterproductive to your overall well-being.

  1. Reduced Quality of Life:
    Living on a resident’s salary can lead to a minimal lifestyle, even if you’re saving aggressively. It means forgoing experiences, quality meals, and travel. This can create resentment and a sense of deprivation that can affect mental health.
    – Research in behavioral economics suggests that chronic self-denial may lead to “decision fatigue” and burnout, reducing overall life satisfaction (Baumeister, 2002; Vohs et al., 2008).
  2. Social and Professional Disconnect:
    When your peers begin to upgrade their lifestyles, you may feel isolated or left behind. We are social creatures, and living below your peers’ standards can contribute to feelings of inadequacy or social isolation.
  3. Psychological Reactance and Regret:
    Extreme restraint can eventually lead to “psychological reactance” – a state where people rebel against restrictions imposed upon them (Brehm, 1966). When you repeatedly deny yourself small pleasures, you reach a breaking point. This can lead to spending sprees that derail financial plans.
  4. Long-Term Happiness and Satisfaction:
    Happiness does not solely depend on how much you save but on how you live. Moderate spending on experiences, relationships, and leisure can lead to sustained happiness (Dunn, Aknin, & Norton, 2008). Sacrificing these aspects may not be the optimal trade-off for your well-being.

Practical Downsides

  1. Sustainability of Extreme Frugality:
    Although “living like a resident” may work on paper, it assumes you can maintain a frugal lifestyle over several years. Many physicians find that such a rigid framework is difficult. They face the realities of medical practice, family life, and social invitations.
  2. Opportunity Cost of Reduced Living:
    Limiting spending has an opportunity cost. Money not spent may mean missed opportunities for personal growth, networking, and professional advancement. You might miss out on investments in yourself—be it further education, professional certifications, or even a sabbatical.
  3. The Hidden Costs of Sacrifice:
    The hidden costs of austerity can include stress, impaired relationships, and diminished creativity. When you’re constantly counting every dollar, you miss the larger picture of why you’re working so hard in the first place.

The Benefits of Consumption Smoothing

A Balanced Approach to Financial Growth

Consumption smoothing is rooted in economics and suggests that individuals are happiest when they can maintain a relatively stable level of consumption throughout their lives. Consumption smoothing means enjoying a higher standard of living when your income increases rather than strict austerity.

  1. Gradual Adjustment of Lifestyle:
    By living above your means initially and tapering spending later, you create a lifestyle that adjusts to your changing income. This gradual easing of restrictions – rather than a sudden, prolonged period of self-denial – can help preserve your mental health and overall happiness.
  2. Psychological Benefits:
    Moderate, planned increases in consumption enhance life satisfaction and reduce stress. As your income grows, a moderate increase in spending can help you enjoy the fruits of your labor. The psychological “reward” of enjoying experiences motivates disciplined saving and investing.
  3. Sustainable Financial Growth:
    Even with a more balanced spending approach, you can pay off debt and build a robust investment portfolio. Consumption smoothing doesn’t have to come at the expense of long-term wealth building.

Economic Theory Underpinning Consumption Smoothing

The ideas behind smoothing consumption are not new. Two seminal theories in economics support this approach:

  1. The Permanent Income Hypothesis (PIH):
    Developed by Milton Friedman in the 1950s, the PIH posits that individuals base their consumption decisions on their “permanent” income rather than temporary fluctuations in income (Friedman, 1957). Smoothing consumption over time is a rational response to income uncertainty. For physicians whose incomes dramatically increase after residency, it is perfectly logical to adjust consumption gradually.
  2. The Life Cycle Hypothesis (LCH):
    Franco Modigliani and Richard Brumberg proposed LCH in the 1950s and 1960s. It suggests that individuals plan their consumption and savings behavior over their lifetime. The hypothesis holds that people save but maintain a stable standard of living. Consumption smoothing is part of this model. Physicians can benefit from a consumption strategy that balances current enjoyment with future financial security.

Both theories emphasize that radical frugality is unnecessary for financial success. Instead, they suggest that a balanced approach allowing for a measured increase in consumption as income rises can lead to financial stability and higher overall life satisfaction.

The Physician’s Dilemma: Balancing Sacrifice and Reward

The Temptation to Sacrifice

There is a well-known temptation in the personal finance community to adopt an all-or-nothing mindset. Many of us have been taught that financial independence requires extreme sacrifice in the early years. “Live like a resident” has become shorthand for putting aside even the smallest luxuries, knowing that every dollar saved will eventually compound into significant wealth. However, this mindset often overlooks such sacrifice’s emotional and psychological toll.

For many physicians, the burden of financial austerity can exacerbate stress. Deprivation can feel unhealthy.

A More Nuanced Approach: Enjoying the Journey

In contrast to the “live like a resident” philosophy, consumption smoothing offers a more psychologically sustainable path. Here’s why:

  1. Maintaining a Sense of Progress:
    When you allow your spending to increase gradually along with your income, you maintain a sense of progress and reward. Every new experience, whether it’s a family vacation, a nicer home, or a small indulgence, serves as a milestone that marks your journey toward financial independence. These rewards not only boost morale but also reinforce disciplined financial behavior.
  2. Improved Mental Health:
    Physicians are at higher risk for burnout and depression compared to other professions (Shanafelt et al., 2012). Incorporating moderate spending into your lifestyle can serve as a form of self-care, mitigating chronic stress. When you occasionally reward yourself, you create positive associations with your financial plan.
  3. Enhanced Social Connections:
    Financial success is not just about numbers but also about the quality of your life. You build a network of support and enrichment by allowing yourself to engage in social activities, dining out, and enjoying experiences with family and friends. These social connections are vital for long-term happiness and can indirectly contribute to professional success.
  4. Long-Term Sustainability:
    A moderate, consumption-smoothing approach is more likely to be sustainable over the long haul. Extreme frugality can lead to periods of burnout or rebellion against your own rules. By integrating flexibility into your spending plan, you’re more likely to stick with it over the decades.

The Psychological Science of Consumption and Happiness

The Role of Behavioral Economics

Behavioral economics explains why the “live like a resident” strategy might backfire.

  1. Present Bias and Delayed Gratification:
    While it is true that delaying gratification can lead to long-term financial gains, numerous studies have shown that human beings are hardwired for immediate rewards (Laibson, 1997). Physicians may find it challenging to defer immediate pleasures consistently. By incorporating moderate spending increases, you’re effectively calibrating your plan to account for natural present bias, reducing the temptation for unplanned, impulsive spending.
  2. The “Happiness Plateau” and Adaptation:
    Research has shown that while increases in income and consumption can boost happiness, the effects plateau (Brickman & Campbell, 1971; Kahneman & Deaton, 2010). This phenomenon, hedonic adaptation, suggests that extreme early-life austerity may not provide a lasting sense of satisfaction. Gradually increasing consumption aligns better with our tendency to adapt to new comfort levels.
  3. Self-Determination and Autonomy:
    According to self-determination theory (Deci & Ryan, 2000), a key component of psychological well-being is the need for autonomy. When you force yourself into an overly frugal mode of living, you risk undermining this basic need. A consumption-smoothing approach can enhance motivation and better adherence to your financial goals.

Balancing Rationality and Emotion

Financial planning is not merely a numbers game; it’s also emotional. While the arithmetic of compound interest and debt repayment is straightforward, it’s essential to recognize that money is a tool for enhancing life quality.

A consumption-smoothing approach can create a balanced financial plan for rigorous savings and a rewarding lifestyle. This balance is key to avoiding the pitfalls of burnout.

Toward a New Paradigm for Physician Finances

Embracing a Nuanced Financial Philosophy

It’s time to challenge the prevailing narrative that the only path to financial independence is paved with years of deprivation. The “live like a resident” mantra fails to account for the human elements of satisfaction, social connection, and psychological resilience. A more nuanced financial philosophy recognizes that the journey to wealth is not merely accumulating dollars —it’s about building a rich life in experiences, relationships, and personal growth.

  1. Holistic Wealth:
    Wealth should be measured in money and quality of life. A balanced approach to consumption ensures that you are investing in your future and your present well-being. Enjoying the fruits of your labor today can provide the emotional fuel needed to stay the course for decades.
  2. A Flexible Plan:
    The best financial plans are flexible ones. Life is unpredictable, and rigid rules can cause harm. By allowing spending adjustments, you create a resilient financial plan.
  3. Peer Benchmarking and Relative Success:
    One of the lesser-discussed aspects of consumption is social comparison. Physicians often gauge their success relative to their peers. A plan that involves moderate consumption increases can help you feel that you are keeping pace with your colleagues. This relative success can motivate you to continue saving and investing.

Reassessing Your Financial Goals

The model discussed earlier demonstrates that you can still achieve aggressive financial milestones – such as paying off significant debt and building a multi-million-dollar portfolio – without sacrificing all your present comforts. The key is to reassess your financial goals in a way that recognizes the dual importance of wealth accumulation and life enjoyment.

  • Debt Repayment with Flexibility:
    Even if you choose not to live like a resident, aggressive debt repayment remains a cornerstone of financial health. In our model, debt was eliminated within a few years, freeing up cash flow for investment. Prioritize high-interest debt and structure your repayment plan wisely.
  • Investing in Yourself and Your Future:
    Beyond the numbers, consider what your money is ultimately for. Is it to accumulate a large nest egg or create opportunities for travel, education, philanthropy, and family experiences? A well-rounded financial plan recognizes that the returns on these “investments” in quality of life are immeasurable.
  • Preparing for Financial Independence:
    The rule of thumb for financial independence—having a portfolio worth 25 times your annual spending—is a useful benchmark. In our scenario, financial independence was achieved by age 49. You can concurrently build a life of wealth and happiness.

Let’s crunch some numbers!

Here’s a detailed physician example.

Let’s take an example of a physician who is 27 years old and starting residency. They will make $60,000 plus a 3% COLA for their four-year residency. During residency, they plan to live on $75,000 annually (a little beyond their means). After residency, they must repay their $200,000 (6%) loans. They will start at age 31, making $300,000 per year. They pay a 6% state income tax and an effective federal tax of 18%. Going forward, they will average a 3% annual raise and a 5% annual bonus. They will spend $90,000 for the first year and then increase to $120,000 annually for five years. Then $160,000 for five years, then $180,000 going forward.

The pay yourself last philosophy is built in. If possible, the goal is to repay the student loan within 3-4 years. All money made but not spent is invested in a 75/25 balanced index fund (stocks/bonds) using estimated historical stock returns. In this scenario, they live beyond their means for four years but below their means thereafter. They spend more over time and can enjoy a path of increased spending and wealth. They nevertheless reach a level of wealth and comfort that would allow early retirement or financial independence.

In our scenario, by age 55, the portfolio grows to nearly $9 million, and financial independence – defined as having a portfolio equal to 25 times annual spending – is achieved well before retirement.

In our model, we assume that:

  1. Residency (Ages 27–30):
    • The physician already “incurs” a $200,000 student loan at the start of residency.
    • The residency salary starts at $60,000 annually and increases 3% annually.
    • They “live beyond their means” by spending $75,000 annually.
    • We assume a combined tax rate of 24% on residency income (so net income ≈ is 76% of gross income).
    • The annual “deficit” (spending minus net income) is financed by additional borrowing that accrues interest at 6% (the same rate as the student loan).
    • At the end of residency (age 30), the total debt is the sum of the $200,000 plus the accumulated deficits (all growing at 6%).
  2. Post‐Residency (Ages 31–55):

    • At age 31, the physician “flips the script”: They start a job paying a base salary of $300,000 plus a 5% bonus on base (i.e., $15,000). Both base and bonus then grow—base by 3% per year and bonus by 5% per year. Taxes remain at 24% of gross income.
    • Spending is modest at first (only $90,000 at age 31) and then increases in “blocks”: $120,000 annually for the next 5 years (ages 32–36), $160,000 for 5 years (ages 37–41), and $180,000 thereafter.
    • Because physicians have built up relatively high debt balances by 30, they use “extra” cash flow from high-paying jobs to pay their debts aggressively over four years (ages 31–34). In our model, the required annual debt payment (so that the entire balance is eliminated by the end of age 34) comes to roughly $107,500 per year (this number comes from standard amortization of the $372,000 debt at 6% over 4 years).
    • Any net cash remaining after spending and the scheduled debt payment is invested in a balanced portfolio assumed to return about 7% per year (roughly what historical data suggest for a 75% stocks/25% bonds mix, though many factors can affect actual returns).
  3. Net Worth:

    • “Net worth” is taken as (investment portfolio) minus (remaining outstanding debt). The net worth is negative during residency because the physician borrows to finance spending beyond income. After age 34, the debt is paid off, so net worth equals the portfolio balance.
    • Finally, for “financial independence,” we use the “25× spending rule” (i.e., a portfolio that could fund 25 years of the annual spending level). Spending $180,000 a year for the later phase means a roughly $4.5 million portfolio.

Below is one sample year‐by‐year table from age 27 to age 55. (All amounts are “end-of-year” numbers, and amounts are in U.S. dollars rounded to the nearest thousand.)

Summary Table of Annual Earnings, Spending, Debt, and Net Worth
AgeGross IncomeNet IncomeSpendingSurplus (Net Income – Spending)Debt Balance*Investment Portfolio**Net Worth
27$60,000$46,000$75,000–$29,000$241,000$0–$241,000
28$62,000$47,000$75,000–$28,000$284,000$0–$284,000
29$64,000$48,000$75,000–$27,000$328,000$0–$328,000
30$66,000$50,000$75,000–$25,000$372,000$0–$372,000
31$315,000$239,000$90,000$149,000$372,000×1.06 = $394,000 – $107,500 ≈ $287,000$0×1.07 + $42,000 ≈ $42,000($42,000 – $287,000 = –$245,000)
32$325,000$247,000$120,000$127,000$287,000×1.06 – $107,500 ≈ $197,000$42,000×1.07 + $19,000 ≈ $64,000–$197,000 + $64,000 = –$133,000
33$335,000$254,000$120,000$134,000$197,000×1.06 – $107,500 ≈ $101,000$64,000×1.07 + $27,000 ≈ $96,000–$101,000 + $96,000 = –$5,000
34$345,000$262,000$120,000$142,000$101,000×1.06 – $107,500 ≈ $0$96,000×1.07 + $35,000 ≈ $137,000$137,000
35$356,000$270,500$120,000$151,000$0$137,000×1.07 + $150,500 ≈ $297,000$297,000
36$367,000$279,400$120,000$159,400$0$297,000×1.07 + $159,400 ≈ $478,000$478,000
37$379,000$288,300$160,000$128,300$0$478,000×1.07 + $128,300 ≈ $639,000$639,000
38$391,000$297,100$160,000$137,100$0$639,000×1.07 + $137,100 ≈ $821,000$821,000
39$403,000$306,500$160,000$146,500$0$821,000×1.07 + $146,500 ≈ $1,025,000$1,025,000
40$416,000$316,300$160,000$156,300$0$1,025,000×1.07 + $156,300 ≈ $1,253,000$1,253,000
41$429,000$326,000$160,000$166,000$0$1,253,000×1.07 + $166,000 ≈ $1,507,000$1,507,000
42$442,000$336,000$180,000$156,000$0$1,507,000×1.07 + $156,000 ≈ $1,768,000$1,768,000
43$456,000$346,500$180,000$166,500$0$1,768,000×1.07 + $166,500 ≈ $2,058,000$2,058,000
44$470,000$357,300$180,000$177,300$0$2,058,000×1.07 + $177,300 ≈ $2,380,000$2,380,000
45$484,000$367,500$180,000$187,500$0$2,380,000×1.07 + $187,500 ≈ $2,734,000$2,734,000
46$498,000$379,000$180,000$199,000$0$2,734,000×1.07 + $199,000 ≈ $3,124,000$3,124,000
47$514,000$391,000$180,000$211,000$0$3,124,000×1.07 + $211,000 ≈ $3,554,000$3,554,000
48$529,000$402,000$180,000$222,000$0$3,554,000×1.07 + $222,000 ≈ $4,025,000$4,025,000
49$545,000$414,000$180,000$234,000$0$4,025,000×1.07 + $234,000 ≈ $4,541,000$4,541,000
50$561,000$426,000$180,000$246,000$0$4,541,000×1.07 + $246,000 ≈ $5,104,000$5,104,000
51$579,000$440,000$180,000$260,000$0$5,104,000×1.07 + $260,000 ≈ $5,721,000$5,721,000
52$555,000*$454,000$180,000$274,000$0$5,721,000×1.07 + $274,000 ≈ $6,395,000$6,395,000
53$572,000*$467,000$180,000$287,000$0$6,395,000×1.07 + $287,000 ≈ $7,130,000$7,130,000
54$589,000*$481,000$180,000$301,000$0$7,130,000×1.07 + $301,000 ≈ $7,930,000$7,930,000
55$607,000*$497,000$180,000$317,000$0$7,930,000×1.07 + $317,000 ≈ $8,802,000$8,802,000

 

* Gross incomes for people aged 52–55 grow at about 3% annually.

** Investment Portfolio updates use the recurrence:
New Portfolio = (Prior Portfolio × 1.07) + (Surplus – Debt Payment, if any)
Between ages 31 and 34, a portion of the surplus is used to pay debt; after age 34, the entire surplus is invested.

Case Study Takeaways

  • Residency years (ages 27–30): Because the net (after‐tax) stipend is well below the $75,000 lifestyle cost, the physician ends residency with roughly $372,000 in total debt (the $200,000 student loan plus additional “lifestyle‐deficit” borrowing, all grown at 6%).
  • Debt Payoff (ages 31–34): With a jump in income, an annual payment of about $107,500 is set aside so that by the end of age 34, the entire debt is paid off.
  • Wealth Building: After age 34, all surplus is allocated to the investment portfolio. With a 7% assumed annual return, the portfolio grows from about $137,000 at age 34 to nearly $8.8 million by age 55.
  • Financial Independence: In this scenario, the physician’s portfolio exceeds $4.5 million (roughly 25× $180,000 annual spending) at about age 49—suggesting that by then, the accumulated wealth is high enough to “retire” or be financially independent if desired.

Caveats

  • The assumed 7% annual return is roughly in line with long‐term historical averages for a diversified portfolio weighted 75% stocks/25% bonds (see, for example, Vanguard’s historical data).
  • The 6% interest rate on debt and the 24% effective tax rate are simplifications.
  • The “25× spending” rule is a common rule of thumb for financial independence (see the FIRE movement literature), though actual safe withdrawal rates depend on many factors.

This model is simplified. In a real‐world model, you might want to include variations such as different timings of cash flows, potential changes in tax law, investment fees, or more granular debt–repayment timing. This table provides one way of “mapping out” the scenario. It shows that although this physician lived beyond their means for the first few years, a high income and disciplined use of cash can lead to lifestyle growth and substantial net worth. They reached financial independence by age 49.

Conclusion: A Path Forward for Physicians

The “live like a resident” philosophy has gained traction because of its simplicity and promise of rapid wealth accumulation. However, as physicians, our lives are far more complex than a simple equation of income versus spending. We must consider our emotional well-being, our social connections, and our need for personal satisfaction.

Consumption smoothing offers a compelling alternative. By allowing for a gradual adjustment in spending that reflects your growing income and evolving lifestyle, you can avoid the pitfalls of prolonged deprivation while still achieving aggressive financial goals. The approach acknowledges that saving and investing are crucial, as is the ability to enjoy the present and build a rich, fulfilling life.

In practice, you might live above your means in the early years, enjoying moderate upgrades in your quality of life. Then, as your income rises and your investments compound, you can adjust your spending further. This balanced approach leads to impressive financial outcomes and preserves mental and emotional well-being.

The takeaway is clear: you don’t have to sacrifice your quality of life for financial security. By embracing consumption smoothing, you can enjoy your career, family, and life—even as you build wealth and financial independence.

Final Thoughts

Extreme frugality can accelerate your path to financial independence—but don’t ignore the human element. As physicians, our lives are already filled with intense pressures and demands. Why add to that burden by living in a state of constant deprivation? Strike a balance that rewards both your future self and your present life.

According to the Permanent Income Hypothesis and the Life Cycle Hypothesis, a consumption smoothing strategy makes sense. It also aligns with our need for autonomy, social connection, and personal fulfillment. In doing so, you transform the journey to financial independence from an endless sacrifice into a path marked by gradual progress, meaningful experiences, and sustainable success.

So, let’s reframe the narrative. Let’s reject the idea that you must “live like a resident” for years. Embrace a lifestyle that evolves in tandem with your career. You’ll build an impressive investment portfolio and create a life that feels rich. Financial independence is not just about the destination; it’s about the journey. Enjoy your journey!

Further Reading and Resources

  • “A Theory of the Consumption Function” by Milton Friedman (1957):
    This seminal work lays the groundwork for understanding how individuals plan consumption based on permanent income rather than temporary income changes.
  • “The Life Cycle Hypothesis: An Economic Theory of Consumption” by Franco Modigliani and Richard Brumberg (1954):
    This theory provides insight into how individuals manage their consumption and savings throughout their lifetime.
  • Behavioral Economics and Self-Control:
    Explore Baumeister, Tice, and Vohs’s research on self-regulation and decision fatigue, which helps explain why extreme self-denial can be counterproductive.
  • Hedonic Adaptation and Well-Being:
    Investigate the work of Brickman and Campbell (1971) and Kahneman and Deaton (2010) to understand better how our satisfaction with consumption levels plateaus over time.
  • White Coat Investor Blog:
    James Dahle’s insights provide a useful counterpoint to traditional personal finance advice for physicians. While his “live like a resident” approach has merits, it’s valuable to consider alternative strategies.

Sources:

  • Baumeister, R. F. (2002). Yielding to temptation: Self-control failure, impulsive purchasing, and consumer behavior.
  • Brehm, J. W. (1966). A Theory of Psychological Reactance.
  • Brickman, P., & Campbell, D. T. (1971). Hedonic Relativism and Planning the Good Society.
  • Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2000). The “What” and “Why” of Goal Pursuits: Human Needs and the Self-Determination of Behavior.
  • Dunn, E. W., Aknin, L. B., & Norton, M. I. (2008). Spending Money on Others Promotes Happiness.
  • Friedman, M. (1957). A Theory of the Consumption Function.
  • Kahneman, D., & Deaton, A. (2010). High income improves evaluation of life but not emotional well-being.
  • Laibson, D. (1997). Golden Eggs and Hyperbolic Discounting.
  • Modigliani, F., & Brumberg, R. (1954). Utility Analysis and the Consumption Function: An Interpretation of Cross-Section Data; in Post-Keynesian Economics.

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4 Comments

  1. IM-PCP said:

    This sounds nice at first, but seems really risky.

    What if the resident, who is living beyond their means, has to leave residency? or just doesn’t start practicing right away? Or feels constrained to take a suboptimal position because of that extra $45-50,000 in debt from living slightly higher on the hog in residency? That’s not even counting the assumption that income will grow year over year.

    Living a little frugally at first, and building up some savings, seems a bit safer.

    February 9, 2025
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    • “Living a little frugally at first, and building up some savings, seems a bit safer.”
      I agree with this. If you can live on a resident’s salary only during residency that would be great. More power to you. I was a single young man living in an urban area and wanted to live a bit larger. I spent a lot on travel, entertainment, dining, and dating. I met my wife in the process.
      I’m giving permission to those who want to spend a bit more during residency, but that is by no means a requirement.
      The bigger point is that you can loosen your belt a bit after finishing residency. I did not find it necessary to continue living like a resident when I was making attending income. I still lived well below my means, but more than a resident. This is a nuanced argument, which means it will never be a good tagline on social media. That’s how life often is.

      February 17, 2025
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  2. Erik said:

    When you say “extreme frugality”, what does that look like? Are you imagining spending $20k a year? Remember the median salary in the US- are all those people living in “extreme frugality”? Might you be confusing “extreme frugality” with “normal living”? I don’t think living on a residents salary represents “extreme frugality”.

    February 7, 2026
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    • Good point. You are correct. Living on $20k would be extreme frugality. Living on a resident salary of $60-70k like the median household is not.
      It may feel relatively extreme compared to peers or compared to future spending, but “relative frugality” would be more apt.
      Thanks for stopping by and politely correcting me when I get sloppy.

      February 8, 2026
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